Today I accepted my bid from Alpha Chi Omega! I can’t believe I just wrote that…

Last week after meeting some of the girls, I was so happy and excited to go about this process, feeling like I may finally fit in somewhere, but the reality did not fully hit until I started talking to my roommates and some other girls. I realize that I will not be selected or even get a chance because my Instagram is not aesthetic or not white enough or that I am not diverse. Going through this process is self-insuring and deprecating at the same time…

The Rushing begins!!! Let me clear up the air. I am doing informal rushing known as COB (Continuous Open Bidding). This process usually happens in the Spring semester, when one or two sorority sisters meet you for coffee to chat for 30 min- 1 hr. To get a coffee date slot, one needs to either DM the society's Instagram, fill out google forms, or get a recommendation from a friend…